Tuesday, 9 July 2013

Being Strong !!

Back when i was a small kid, when i thought the tallest place on the earth was my fathers shoulders and the safest inside my mothers arms.I had a dream, A dream that one day I will grow strong. Though the priorites and views about the life changed as the sands of time dropped down as the wheels of time turned. This particular dream also grew inside me. Though it has evolved from just becoming tall to being mentally strong. The question still lurks in my mind what is being strong ?

Is it being emotionally balanced and being able to take life as it is, in simpler words being a happy go lucky person or is it the physical prowess which determines ones strength.

Strength may not necessarily mean the ability to overpower or convince someone. neither the ability to keep calm under the strom. it is metamorphically the ability to make changes, however small it may be. the strength of a person in my belief lies in his/her ability to forgive and forget. Revenge is the simplest way out.we  close down our thoughts blaming the other person and potraiting ourselves as victims. we must not forget its easiest to go with the flow , you require strength to go against the flow and so it requires great strength to forgive a person of his/her mistakes and accept them for what they are, to accept life as it is.

Because after all life might not offer you the best of the world but what ever it offers you its yours and yours only.